Here in Ghana most people have multiple names. They have an
English name, and then either a Ghanian or a day name. Your day name depends on
what day you were born. So for me since I was born on a Tuesday my name is Araba.
This same name would be given to anyone who was born on a Tuesday (though some
days have multiple name choices, and the names for men and women are
different).
The problem I have run into however is that the day name for
Saturday is Ama, making this an extremely common name. So when I introduce
myself as “Emma” I have not yet encountered a Ghanian who did not think I was
saying “Ama.” One man even got angry because I was “refusing to tell him my
REAL name” (he wanted to know my “American” name) even when I tried explaining that
my real name is Emma! (sounds to them like Ama)
So every time I introduce myself to someone this awkward and
lengthy explanation of my name is sure to follow. I have to say “It’s not Ama,
its Emma! I was NOT born on Saturday, my name just sounds similar to the Ghanaian
name but it is actually with an E.”
Now you may be thinking “how often do you really have to
introduce yourself?” but the answer is multiple times a day. As an “obruni”
(literally “white person”) I stick out here like a sore thumb and everyone
wants to know who you are and what you are doing. Cab drivers, people you walk
past on the street, people visiting the resort where I go to use internet will
all be constantly asking about who you are.
I think from now on I need to just start introducing myself
by my middle name or something instead…